I can remember a time when I thought 30, 40, and 50 were old. And now here I am, 50 years old and it's not as old as I thought.
I've learned a lot things in my 50 years. But here are a few things I feel are important to know.
Be fair. Be honest. Be generous. Respect
others.
Marriage is hard work. There are highs
and lows, but it is very much worth it.
Anyone who judges you by the kind of car
you drive or shoes you wear is not someone worth impressing.
I’m fat. I’ve gotten over it and you
should too.
Visit or talk to your parents and
grandparents often. You will realize once they are gone just how much you got
out of those visits and conversations.
Let your kids climb in bed and snuggle
with you. One day they won’t, and you will miss it.
Develop a strong handshake (even if you
are a woman) No one wants to shake hands with someone who’s hand is limp.
When you mess up, fess up. Apologizing
isn’t always easy but it’s the right thing to do.
Be truthful or be quiet.
Your education isn’t complete until
you’ve learned to take a hint.
Whatever your passion, pursue it as
though your days were numbered, because they are.
Your grown children are simply wonderful.
But so are your younger children. Enjoy every moment, it goes by fast.
Drink lots of water. It’s good for you,
your brain, and your body.
Treasure your friendships. Keep your
circle small. Know it’s also ok to end friendships with compassion and
finality.
Be patient with people – most are often
just trying to help.
Hug your kids and tell them you love them
every day.
Failure is going to happen. Pick
yourself up and dust your self off and keep moving forward.
Don’t get caught up with what you see in
the mirror, because it reflects only a tiny part of how beautiful you are.
Language is a powerful weapon and the
words you say will either soothe, hurt, engage, or damage those around you,
including yourself.
Losing a loved one is painful. It’s hard
and it’s ugly. But when you remember them, smile no matter what. Over time
smiling at the memories will help ease the pain.
Everyone else is just as worried and
insecure as you are. Some just hid it better. It doesn’t mean they are smarter.
Laugh often.
It’s just stuff. It gets broken or lost
in a flood. But ultimately, it’s just stuff. The memories will always be there.
Don’t judge. You don’t know all the
facts. We all have faults and bad habits.
Take the girls trip. Laughter with
girlfriends is great medicine.
Always let someone proofread. It usually
makes a difference.
Pamper yourself. Get your hair done, get
a pedicure. It will always make you feel better.
